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Explore Kink

I’m Ema, a kink educator with over a decade of experience teaching Kink 101s and advising people through their kink journeys. I want to help folks navigate these waters by providing the support and conversations I wish I'd had when I was first exploring. I’ll help you express your desires and make a plan to get closer to them.Practical, simple, and powerful approaches mean you can transfer your new knowledge to other areas of your life as well. If you’ve had a hard time with reductive approaches to kink and pleasure, these sessions will be worth your while.Who is this for?
Curious, open minded, 18+ year old folks. Solo / partnered / monogamous / nonmonogamous, sexual / romantic, asexual / aromantic, new to kink / experienced, all are welcome.

Discovery Call

This is an introductory 20 minute voice-only call that will help us learn more about each other, set expectations for a full session, and inform how to tailor our session so that it's the most beneficial use of your time!$10
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$7 with referral discount code

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Sounding Board

Have lots of jumbled thoughts about kink that you'd like to express or organize? I can help.One hour, requires a discovery call first.Sometimes you just need someone to talk to who will help make kink more understandable or accessible in a way that makes sense for you.This is especially useful for people who aren't able to talk to people in their lives about kink and/or want an open, non-judgmental space with someone they likely won't interact with in their day-to-day life.We can either:
- Have a broad conversation about your curiosities or
- Discuss more specific tools to help you approach a scene or dynamic with ease and confidence.This offer includes a write up of our call, next steps, and relevant resources!$70
or
$60 with referral discount code

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Kink 101 Workshop

This is a two hour introductory workshop to kink with guided activities meant to widen your understanding of kink, challenge common assumptions, and build confidence in describing your interests. Good for individuals and groups!I will help you:
- Define some core principles and elements of kink
- Dispel myths
- Expand what can be considered intimacy
- Workshop ways to talk about desires
- Learn the basics of negotiating
- Relate to everyday examples of kink, not just the tropesIndividual and Small Group Rate for Virtual 101
$120 + $10 per additional personorEmail me for in person and large group rates!

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Frequently Asked Questions

How can I contact you?
Email me at [email protected]Who is this for?
Curious, open minded, 18+ year old folks. Solo / partnered / monogamous / nonmonogamous, sexual / romantic, asexual / aromantic, new to kink / experienced, all are welcome.What if I feel nervous or too new?
You don't have to be afraid that the sessions are too intermediate since we'll move at your pace and start from where your knowledge and skills begin!Where can I read reviews?
Here is my Fiverr account where you can read reviews from previous clients. Booking with me directly through this page instead of Fiverr helps me keep prices lower.Are you available to facilitate workshops for conferences, universities, private events, book clubs, etc.?
Yes! Email the event details to [email protected] and we'll figure out fit and availability.